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Monday, December 31, 2018

Memory Box 2018




George and Ben had a special trip to Vietnam. It was 50 years since George's first "trip". They were gone for 10 days. While they were away on their adventure, my BFF and I went away for a few days to Lake George. 

The in the fall for our anniversary, George and I went to Pennsylvania for vacation. I got to do one of my bucket list items and that was going to Sight & Sound Theater. It was all I had hoped and more. We saw "Jesus" and it was just incredible. The rest of our vacation was awesome--staying in a train mail car one night, having dinner on a train and seeing a replica of the Ark of the Covenant. It was a great vacation.

We saw many plays. My favorites would be "Love Never Dies" and "Scrooge". 


On New Year's Eve, I re-read all the cards and notes we received and re-live the love shared.





We had plenty of other memories in this box too--some sad visits to hospitals and funerals. Losing our sweet brother-in-law, Chuck, was the worse part of the year.






I am still pondering these fortune cookie messages. According to these and our wonderful year, we are not failures. I am not sure that is right to judge your life by what a good time you are having. On the flip side is the other fortune, our trials and tribulations form us and make us stronger.


Well, that's our memory box for this year. It's fun to reflect upon each year as they end. I am glad to say this is one that I will not say, "Good riddance" as others in the past. I will say, "thanks for the memories, 2018." I don't know if 2019 can top this one, but here's to what is yet to come. Happy New Year!






Monday, December 24, 2018

My Thoughts for this Christmas time and New Year



I like my hunker-down-in little world, my little nucleus of family, friends and activities. I don’t really like the outside world now. There is so much bickering and so many people who think so very differently from me. Right and wrong seem subjective now—what a cheery start to a Christmas message, or as political correctness in these times dictates, a “holiday” message, which proves my point.

The problem is, I live in the big world. I am a small dot in the huge population. What do I matter?

This fall we attended a Mennonite church and we heard a great sermon. I told Rev. Roman Mullet that it was so good, that I would be sharing some of it, so here is a blend of his thoughts (his is the research of Bibical people) with mine woven into it.

Everyone in this world is merely a small dot in the population but some step up their actions leaving an impact sometimes big and sometimes small. We all know the story of the boy with the fishes and loaves. It was Andrew who noticed the boy and he drew their attention to him. He did what he could do. The boy then gave up his fishes and loaves. He did what he could do. Rev. Mullet had a theory that the boy’s mother gave him extra food to try and sell for some money. A thought that came to my mind was maybe she was a caring soul who told him to share with someone, never knowing he would be sharing with the multitude. Maybe she was doing what she could do. Imagine her surprise when her son came home!

In the account of Ruth and Naomi. Ruth stayed with her mother-in-law instead of leaving and she gleamed from the fields. She did what she could do.

In the book of Corinthians, a woman gave all that she had left to the collection. She did what she could do.

In I Samuel 25, Abigail fed David’s army. She did what she could do.

There was a woman in Mark 14 who anointed Jesus with perfume worth a year’s wages. She was ridiculed but anything done for Jesus is not wasted. She did what she could do.

When Elijah asked the widow who barely had any food, to cook for him, she did. She did what she could do. When she went back the oil and flour jars were refilled. (I Kings 17).

Dorcas made clothes for the poor. She did what she could do.

Priscilla and Aquilla, (my new favorite Bible couple) worked together, had people in their home and taught people. They did what they could do.

I then thought of other “heroes” of life. I just learned of Janusz Korczak, a children’s author and director of an orphanage in Warsaw during the Nazi invasion. Although offered a chance to escape for just himself, he did not. He told the 200 children they were going on an outing and had them dress in their best clothes. He didn’t want them to be afraid as the Nazi’s led them all to the gas chambers and Janusz sacrificed his life with them. He did what he could do.

There are so many hero stories about the holocaust. There are stories in all wars when soldiers were heroes saving others. There are the people who helped slaves escape in the underground railroad. There are firefighters and policemen who risk their lives. There are people helping anyway they can during the floods, volcano eruptions and wildfires. They do what they can do.

Then there is the kid who sets up a lemonade stand to raise money for a charity. There’s the person who volunteers at the soup kitchen or the person who stops to help someone when their car is broken down, the person who lets someone in front of them in the grocery line or hold a door open for them. There’s the person who pulls over instead of getting angry at the tailgater.  Even in the little things, we should do what we can do.

I hate the negativity in this world and I don’t think one person is to blame. This has been going on for a long time and it just keeps building.

But I do feel, there is more good in the world than the news shows us. When presented with a situation, we need to look inside ourselves and do what we can do. Even the simplest of gestures, a smile, can change one person’s day and can change their attitude toward others that day. We are all precious pebbles tossed in the sea of life. Some are big heroes who make huge ripples into the world, but even us smaller pebbles can make ripples that have a lasting effect. How different we could make this world if we all just do what we can do. 

Of course, the biggest sacrifice was God sending his son to live life on earth like one of us. Jesus had to die for us, so that we may enter heaven one day. He did what he could do and that is why we celebrate this Christmas day.

We are told “whatever you do to the least of them, is as if you did it to me”.  Anything we do for Jesus, is never wasted.  I know that some of you don’t believe like I do, but I hope in 2019 we all do what we can do to make this world a better place. I also believe that most of you already practice this way of life—you try to be courteous to others, even when they don’t acknowledge your actions. I know if the world was just made up of my friends and family, this would be a wonderful place. I just want you to not be discouraged. Don’t tire of doing good. I know you are a precious pebble and that you can make a good difference in this world. Keep the faith and keep on doing what you can do. I will add another favorite movie quote. This one is from Camelot. We are all “less than a drop in the great blue motion of the sunlit sea. But it seems that some of the drops sparkle. Some of them do sparkle!” May God bless you in 2019 as you sparkle.

Merry ChrisTmas!